| Shan and I with her artwork |
The reason for my absence is a personal one but I think I need to explain a little. My best friend of over 30 years died suddenly and unexpectedly. Some may remember me talk about my lovely friend Shan and she did indeed comment occasionally on my posts, Shan lived in Montserrat having moved over there to follow her dream of owning a gallery to sell her beautiful artwork. We were due to visit her over Easter and after hearing the tragic news we made the difficult decision to still fly to Antigua but stay there and have a very different holiday to the one planned. I will do a post about our trip soon but wanted to first give you a reason for my absence.
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| Shan and I in 1987 |


I'm so sorry to hear of your friend's sudden death. My thoughts and prayers are with you and with her family.
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ReplyDeletei am shocked and deeply saddened to read this news, dearest lyn!
i'm sending you so much love across the ocean. i wish i could scoop you up in a huge hug of comfort and tell you how much i care for you right now.
be gentle with yourself, friend, and take the time you need to grieve.
we are here with you in spirit.
xo
So sorry for your loss, what an awful shock.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear of your loss. The death of a loved one, be it friend or family is devastating. You have my sympathy, I hope your good memories of her help you through this difficult time .
ReplyDeleteI cannot begin to comprehend the grief you have felt on losing a dear friend so unexpectedly. I send my deepest sympathies to you and trust that this major step of returning to your blog, that we love so much, will be help to give you the solace you are seeking.
ReplyDeleteI'm happy for all the years you had with such a wonderful friend. Her loss must be painful, but how lucky you were to have shared your lives.
ReplyDeleteWhat dreadful news, I'm not surprised you haven't felt like blogging. Such a sad post, there's nothing I can say really - nothing that will make a difference, but we'll all be waiting to see your lovely posts when you're ready to blog again.
ReplyDeleteI know how difficult and sad it is to loose a special friend, and I can see from the photos just how lovely the bond between you both was.
ReplyDeleteHow wonderful to have had such a long lasting friendship Lyn. It is also lovely to know that Shan realised her dream of opening her own gallery in Montserrat. Wishing you lots of love. Take care of yourself. x
ReplyDeleteSo sorry for your sudden loss but what a lovely tribute to your friend. It is lovely to hear from you again even if it is with sad news. Take care. Viv x
ReplyDeleteWhat a dreadful shock xxx HUGS - so comforting to know she read your blog - a great reason to keep blogging. I too am back - just! Dxxxx
ReplyDeleteWhat a dreadful shock it must have been to hear such sad news and know that you had lost a dear friend. You had such a wonderful friendship and shared so much over the years. I hope that you take consolation from remembering the good times. Shan looks like a lovely lady and I'm sure she would want you to keep smiling. Xxx
ReplyDeleteI am so sorry for your loss. Since losing my friend last December, I truly understand. It is hard to move forward.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to read your sad news, but so lovely to see you back here! You look so happy together! So many good times to remember. x
ReplyDeleteLyn, I am so very sorry for the loss of your longtime friend, Shan. Oh what a hole in our hearts those losses leave behind. You will be in my prayers. Most sincerely~ Andrea
ReplyDeleteSo sorry for your loss x
ReplyDeleteSorry for your loss, please don't stop blogging - we are listening...
ReplyDeleteI think you know how sorry I am about Shan's death, Lyn. I thought I had left a comment before now - glad I checked. Hope you are doing a bit better now, but I know it will take you a very long time to come out of the shock of your loss. I'm very glad to see you back here as I love your blog. Take care of yourself. xxx
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to read this news, it must have been a terrible shock. Please take care of yourself. Xx
ReplyDeleteWhat dreadful news, I am so sorry to hear of it.
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